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Wednesday, 4 February 2009

Perkara2 yang perlu di elakkan semasa mengandung

Perkara2 yang perlu di elakkan ibu2 semasa mengandung :-

1) Elak mengidam makanan yang buruk2 dan tak baik

2) Jauhi memakan makanan yang haram atau syubhah (was-was)

3) Elakkan makanan berbisa spt ikan pari, nanas, tapai


4) Suami elakkan menyakitkan hati isteri dan merunsingkan emosi isteri


5) Isteri elakkan penampilan kurang menarik di hadapan suami


6) Suami isteri jauhi maksiat dan aktiviti tidak bermoral

7) Jauhi pertuturan yang negatif


8) Jauhi membuka aurat


9) Jauhi amalan khurafat


Tuesday, 3 February 2009

15 amalan untuk mendapat anak yang soleh

15 amalan semasa hamil untuk mendapat anak yang soleh:-

1) Banyakkan istighfar & taubat

2) Banyakkan berdoa memudahkan bersalin

3) Rajin puasa sunat (untuk suami)

4) Tidak meninggalkan solat wajib dan rajin solat sunat

5) Banyakkan berzikir sambil menggosok perut

6) Banyyakan membaca Al-Quran

7) membaca buku2 ilmiah

8) berbual2 dengan anak di dalam kandungan

9) lakukan kerja2 rumah sebagai senaman ringan

10) isteri jaga adab dengan suami

11) suami beri lebih perhatian pada isteri

12) makan makanan yang baik bagi isteri

13) jauhi sifat2 mazmumah (sifat keji) bagi si ibu (bersihkan hati)

14) rajin mengukir senyuman buat suami

15) rajin menghadiri majlis2 ilmu

* dipetik dari buku amalan ibu mengandung - Ustazah Nor Bahyah*

Monday, 2 February 2009

~Pregnancy and me (part I) : 1st month~

During Seijinshiki day (hari meraikan cukup umur) which was held somewhere at Ucihama Kominkan, the girls (a-t-qah,ain & diana) were asking me about the experiences that I've encounter when I first found out that I'm pregnant. Thus, it gave me the idea of writing this entry so that I wont forget the lovely 9months 10days moment of expecting my 1st baby!


Solah and I were married on 22nd August 2008 and on 25th August 2008, I am already having my menstrual cycle for the month hihihi..... poor hubby (actually poor me also citt,xmo ngaku wakakakakka). That was the last period for me because after that, I am no longer having my period huh...got it? I'm pregnant already...so fast so goooooood..hehehheheh


There were few 'signs' to indicate my pregnancy that I didn't noticed in the first place such as:-

(a) I really2 wanted to drink Coca Cola after watching the ads in tv. Thus hubby has to bonceng motor with Asul just 2 buy me a bottle of Coke at 10pm!


(b) I really2 wanted to eat cupcakes from Cupcake Chic The Curve...and it has to be only cupcakes from Cupcake Chic The Curve! ONLY! huhuhuuh...

Bare in mind that we were staying in Qelate that time + bulan puasa + The Curve is in Damansara ---> disaster for hubby. But I managed 2 finally got it after a week of mengidam when we went 2 KL for the application of hubby's visa.


(pic: with the cupcakes that I mengidam for 1 week)




(c) 11.30pm ..2 days before syawal....we was getting ready to go to bed when out of a blue I said 2 hubby.."abe, ayg nok make kuey teow tom yam..lo ni jugop!".





Hahahha..just imagine how was my hubby's reaction towards my unexpected action...but then we get dressed and go out for 'kuey-teow-tom yam-hunting' at a restaurant near my in-laws house. Luckily Amah (my sis in law) is still awake by the time we reach home that nite, if not..dua2 tdo dlm keta la hehehhehe.


(d) While I was getting ready to take my bath, hubby suddenly popped out this
awful sentence ---> "bakpo perut ayg buncit kat bawah? peliknya" along with this awful sentence, he added an awful laugh "hahahahahha" and awful expressions on his face. aduh!!!

I was like...."huh? WHATTTTT???" (but I didnt said that 2 him larr...x baik tinggi sora dgn hubby). In fact I said back 2 him, "perut abe tu yg buncit...buwerrrkkk =P ngato ayg pulok"



(e) The biggest 'sign' that truly leads me to really believe that I am pregnant was when I realize that for the 1st time since I'm having my 1st menstrual cycle that I manage to puasa penuh! Wahhh kebanggaan la because people were saying org x puasa penuh xleh raya..hehehhe.

Hubby and I buy the Pregnancy Test Kit from Watson few days before raya. My 1st attempt on using it was not succesful as I wasn't reading the manual properly (ingatkan senang je, celup dlm urine...rupe nye ada few steps la huhuuhhu) .

I tested my urine again on pagi raya, right before I bathed for mandi sunat aidilfitri and this time around...alhamdulillah! The test was carried out properly by me...and the result were shown properly by the kit :)


(pic: 2 lines means that u r definitely 99% pregnant)




And that was all the signs that I could recall during my 1st month of pregnancy. I didn't go to obstetrician because all clinics were closed...it was raya time lah, sapa nak bukak klinik? hihihihi.. But my mother in law is a nurse and she's 100% sure that the test kit result was reliable enough!.


2008's syawal was quite a memorable syawal for me as it was -->

1st raya without mama (al-fatihah utk arwah Hjh Sa'adah Md Said)
+
1st raya without abah's around us early in the morning
+
1st raya as a wife 2 Solah
+
1st raya as daughter-in-law and sis-in-law

+
1st raya as 'mommy-to-be'
+
1st raya that I gave duit raya to my siblings






On the
3rd syawal, my hubby flew to Fukuoka, leaving me and my little baby first (as it was not safe for an early stage of pregnancy 2 have a long-haul flight). Plus, he have 2 settle down first before I'm joining him in Fukuoka. huhuuh...sedih2, baru sebulan kawen dh kene tinggal...tinggal dlm keadaan boyot pulak tu...isk3x



I am writing this entry to make sure that I'll always remember each and every lovely moment that I have encountered during my pregnancy. I hope that one day, whenever I'm pregnant for my next baby( 1st baby pon x keluar lg, dh sibuk2 nak fikir next baby hihiihi)......this experiences that I'm having rite now will remain as a memorable experience in my life.
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