Abe De is my older brother, the only elder brother that I have. He was 3 years older than me. When we were kids, he wanted me to call him "Adik De" instead of "Abe De".
Although Abe De was a bit "different" (pervasive developmental disorder) with his siblings, my late mom treated him the same with us so Abe De was able to grow up as 'normal' kids. *further reading : HERE and HERE*.
Arwah Ma used to share with me about her worries that, one day when all of us have our own family; what will happen to Abe De?.
Who will look after him if he is not married?.
Will he ever find his soulmate too?.
Who will be his other half?. Will she be able to be by Abe De's side through ups and down?.
Most importantly, will she be understanding enough to always accept Abe De's flaws?.
Allah is "the Beneficent, the Merciful". "He is the Most Merciful of those who show mercy. Abe De suddenly told us that he believed he had chosen someone to be his future wife. So, preparations were made by aunties & uncles to ask for her hand in marriage.
And so................Yesterday (06/06/2013) was their engagement day.
+- sarung cincin by Cik Yoh (abah's sister) -+
+- Abe De and his future wife-+
Although it was just a simple ceremony *that's the Kelantanese way*, I am touched when I saw those pictures. It made me miss Arwah Ma more. :'(
I'm praying that their relationship will be blessed and I'm pretty sure that Abe De's wedding day will be one of the most awaited wedding in our siblings.
Pssssttt : Doakan segalanya berjalan lancar dan semoga di permudahkan urusan Abe De untuk menjadi ketua keluarga. He deserved all the rights in the world to be happy, just like us :).
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