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Thursday 20 August 2009

I'm a bad mommy (T_T)

As Baby SN is now 2 months and 3 weeks old, he stays awake for longer periods during the day, which means more time for me to play with him but it also means less time for me to spend on blogging & blog-hopping xpasti hohoho.


This week, hubby realize that he has been able to roll by himself and to lift his head and hold it up for several moments, or even longer, while lying on his back. The first time baby SN roll by himself is during early morning that I am sooooooo damn sleepy to open my eyes and to witness it by myself *mamai2 ngantuk je masa hubby bagitau tu, antara dengar dengan tak je huhuhuh*.


(budak kecik yang dah pandai pusing sendiri)


Later in the afternoon, when he falls asleep, I leave him on his playmat. His playmat is placed on the sofa bed and on the sofa bed itself, we put his Lilo & Stitch mattress to ensure that the place is comfortable enough for him as we didnt buy baby cot for Nazhan. Little did I know that my action has lead to an unexpected incident.


(posisi tidur feveret)


After putting Nazhan on his 'bed', I took a glance on him to make sure that he's fine and I started to perform my routine job i.e bloghopping when suddenly I heard a loud 'BANG....DUMMM' noise next to me gigil. Surprised by the sound, I couldnt think of anything else except to straight away checking on my baby.


True to what I am feeling, I saw baby SN's lying on his Disney puzzle mat that I placed on the floor right next to his sofa-bed-play-mat. He had roll himself from his sleeping position and falls down from his bed onto the puzzle mat. He cries so loud :ayokona: that I think the whole city can hear his voice *okeh, a bit exaggerating here...tapi memang dia nangis kuat giler*. I'm panicked, dunno what to do and started to cry together with him. But then, I manage to put myself together again and quickly hugs him and try to comfort him and at the same time, looking for any bump or even bleeding sign on his head.



(gambar hiasan, bukan di ambil semasa kejadian..takkan anak dah meraung ::( sempat lagi nak amek gambar semata2 nak blogging kan? huhuhuhu)


When baby SN stops crying, I quickly surf on the net to find out what I should do when this incident happen. Here's some tips nerd on what to do when your baby bumps his head as given by AskDrSears.com :-
  • Don't panic. --> Stay calm. If your child sees you remain relaxed, he is more likely to calm down.
  • Ice, ice, ice! --> Gently hold an ice pack to the bump. This will decrease the eventual size of the bump. Apply the ice for 20 minutes and then take a 5-minute break, then 20 minutes again.
  • Stop the bleeding --> Simply apply gentle pressure to the cut using a cloth. The bleeding will stop with time. Children virtually never lose too much blood from a cut or bump, even though it may seem like a lot.
  • Observe your child --> If your child is alert and conscious, walking, talking, playing, and acting like she was before the fall, ther's nothing to worry about. Following an injury, it can be difficult to tell the difference between a mild traumatic brain injury (concussion) and a more serious brain injury. Watch the child carefully for 24 hours after a head injury to see whether he or she develops any signs of a serious head injury.

Luckily, there's nothing unusual on baby SN that I need to worries about. Few minutes after the fall, he smiles and 'talking' back to me as usual. Phewwww penat...what a relief. When hubby comes home, I told him about this fall so hubby quickly took action by rotating the sofa bed in order to create a 'wall' to Nazhan's bed. Though it might look not so-casa-impian by putting the sofa in this way, as long as it can keep our baby safe..I have nothing to complaint about diam.


(baby SN tersorok belakang 'wall' created by daddy)



(pose tunjuk 6-pax atas puzzle mat yang mommy tergedik2 beli sampai 2 set sengihnampakgigi)



Pssssttt:
Nasib baik I gedik nak pasang Disney puzzle mat tu sebab I tak tahan sangat tengok designya yang cute so I terus pasang walaupun cadangnya nak pasang Disney puzzle mat tu lepas baby SN dah tau duduk. huhuhu..kadang2 berguna gak sifat over excited seorang mummy
ihikhik.

35 words of wisdom & comments:

mama safiyyah said...

dont worry....this doesnt make you a bad mom.....it happens just to remind you to be extra careful with the lil one next time.....hehehe been there, know how you feel.......but beware.....more to come as he starts to crawl, walk, run.......take care and kisses for the lil prince....

murni said...

waa supo la pulok, zayyan pun jatuh katil pagi tadi. tapi sebab mok dio tido tok kabar ingat. nasib baik jatuh atah futon. umoh oghe bilik tido pakai tatami tu lembut sikit. kalu flooring tu kerah sikit keno jago lebih, mujur ado pelapik mickey tu dih. keno jelingan maut nge cik abe jugok ko? hihihi

yatie chomeyl said...

mama safiyyah >> thanks 4 the lil remnider, will take note on that :)

yatie chomeyl said...

murni >> ore pon nasib baik sofa bed tu tok tinggi sangat, jatuh pong atas puzzle mat..klu jatuh atas floor meme soh2 keno ngepek 44hari 45male la hehe

**Perfect Love** said...

kalau anak jatuh.. maknya ni pun kalau boleh nak melalak sama. takutttt.. tp tips2 yg k yatie bg tu mmg berguna. pasni kalau anak jatuh, kena stay calm dulu baru leh pikir apa nak buat .. ;-)
tq for info

liana said...

ala tiannye baby SN...seb baik xder aper2.

Ina said...

alala seb baik baby sn xpape. ada hikmah mommy tergerak hati ltk mat tu. kdg2 dh berhati2 pn benda tetap akan jd kan huhu

sitisifir10 said...

Yatie, akak pernah tau jadi begini and the best part is my husband tak sedar pun masa mana Asmaa' jatuh. Masa akak balik keje je, mmg akak perasan suami akak pucat tapi he let me eat first baru dia bgtau...seb la ckp lepas makan...tapi dia kata sikit pun Asmaa' tak nangis dan memang pulak katil tu 3 sisi dia adalah dinding and the other part tu suami akak yang lena...tatau la mcm mana Asmaa' boleh tergolek duck kat bawah..uhukkk...esok gi klinik the doc asked, "Ada dia muntah tak?" alhamdulillah takde dan dia nasihatkan if another time berlaku lagik, bagi dia minum manyak2 and perati dia muntah ke tak...kalau tak, alhamdulillah but then if the baby muntah, mungkin ada pendarahan dalaman.... so, next time carefull ek!!!

Farah said...

alalala siannye baby SN terjatuh ek...i rase die melalak tu bukan sbb sakit sgt tapi sbb terkejut hahaha sbb tu kejap je menangis..baby SN kuat kan!

huda said...

alhamdulillah baby SN x ape2...huda penah bace, kes kalau baby jatuh then dalam 24hr ade muntah2 kena bawak dia g paed.

azzamoro said...

nasib takde pape. memang if anak jatuh kite akan rase so guilty.masa dia jatuh dlm hati rase macam takut gile & doa sgt2 takde pape. I pun pernah experience benda yang sama. takut sgt..

afidah said...

yatie.. farrihin pon penah jatuh katil.. benjol kepala.. i panik terus gi spital buat scan...

kakyong said...

fikri penah jatuh.. masa tu ayhnya yg jagakan.. kakyong di tempat kerja.. (masa fikri kecik, pg dia di rumah pengasuh, tengahari atoknya amik.. ptg ayhnya bawa balik ke rumah..) sampai bengkak muka..x tahu kesah sebenar yg terjadi.. en ayh langsung tak nak btau hal yg sebenar.. bagai nak pecah dada ibu dibuat.. masa tu ayah nya sampai kat kilang pkl 5 ptg.. masuk kereta fikri menangis tak berhenti2.. dr tmpt kerja ke rumah (20 min perjalanan by car) menangis tak berhent.. on d way perasan muka dia dah lebam & bengkak.. terus singgah klink.. doktor buat surat supaya ke hospital utk xray.. tp en ayah tak nak g.. tensen sungguh ibu.. doktor klink bg ubat kurangkan lebam & ubat tahn sakit & ntah x ingat dah 2,3 ubat lagi.. mujur la esok pg bengkak nya susut...

tp en ayah kena 'basuh' ler dgn atok & opah (PIL)...

ayurosni said...

insyirah pon pnh jtuh katil lg.jth plak atas floor btl2.benjol gak kepala.ngns xlama.xbwk g klnik pon sbb xmuntah.tny2 org tua, dorg ckp kl xmuntah xpe.

nadiah sidek said...

ala siannya..alhamdulillah takde pape. mak sy awal2 dh pesan jgn letak safiyyah atas katil/tmpt tinggi sorg2..takut terjatuh. nak2 kalau dh pandai rolling. sy mmg biar safiyyah baring atas lantai je..lapik dgn comforter sbb tak beli baby cot :)

nadiah sidek said...

ala siannya..alhamdulillah takde pape. mak sy awal2 dh pesan jgn letak safiyyah atas katil/tmpt tinggi sorg2..takut terjatuh. nak2 kalau dh pandai rolling. sy mmg biar safiyyah baring atas lantai je..lapik dgn comforter sbb tak beli baby cot :)

yatie chomeyl said...

** perfect love ** >> tu la, mommy pon ikut melalak sekali dgn baby SN

yatie chomeyl said...

liana >> tu lah, alhamdulillah xde apa2

yatie chomeyl said...

ina >> instinct seorg mommy kan

yatie chomeyl said...

sitisifir >> thanks 4 the tips, baby SN pon xde muntah lps jatuh tu so tak risau sgt tu..

yatie chomeyl said...

farah >> ye kot, sbb jatuh atas puzzle mat x skait sgt kot..

yatie chomeyl said...

huda >> aaah, akak pon baca kat internet ckp mcm tu. since baby SN x muntah, akak pon x bwk g klinik la

yatie chomeyl said...

azza >> tu lah kan, kepala dh fikir bukan2..dlm hati kumat kamit doa

yatie chomeyl said...

afidah >> nsb baik baby SN takde benjol apa2

yatie chomeyl said...

kakyong >> nsb baik fikri x apa2. haisy..mesti dalam hati masa tu dah fikir macam2 kan kak yong.

yatie chomeyl said...

ayurosni >> sian insyirah siap benjol2..tp xpe, insyirah kan kuat..;)

yatie chomeyl said...

nadiah >> tak perasan dia dah pandai rolling..sbb tu selamber je letak, skrg dh xberani nak letak..letak dia tdo kat sebelah je

ummisalsabila said...

bby sn xde pape kan.aufa pun dulu ingt x pnh jatuh katil.punyela kuat mlalak..sakit la kn.tp pastu ok.xde pape yg pelik pstu.alhmdulillh.takut kn dengor depa ni mlalak.seram jer..:)

ummuabdullahsyaakir said...

Aduhai..alhmdulillah baby SN tak ape2...Lps ni Yatie kenalah hati2 yea..risaukan ank nangis kuat lps jatuh..eem cepatnya dia pndai rolling,lps ni msti cept buat mcm2 ni...good boy^_^

mamasyaza said...

dear yatie..jgn pikir yg bukan2...akak pun dulu cam tu la gak..masa anak yang sulung tu still baby...akak tdo sebelah dia..siap buat tembok ngan bantal2 utk elakkan si abg tu jatuh...tapi akhirnya kita terlelap...dia bergolek2...jatuh gak akhirnye...ada berbagai fasa lagi yg akan yatie lalui....relaxxx

yatie chomeyl said...

US >> alhamdulillah, xde pape..tp tu la bila anak melalak, mommy pon join melalak hehehe

yatie chomeyl said...

US >> alhamdulillah, xde pape..tp tu la bila anak melalak, mommy pon join melalak hehehe

yatie chomeyl said...

ummu AS >> tu la, x sangka dia dh pandai rolling..terkejut mommy

yatie chomeyl said...

mama syaza >>tu la, mmg x sah klu x jatuh erk ..nak2 baby boy nih

Ibu Najiha said...

salam,

saya pn prnah alamai situasi yg sama..duk biar najiha tido atas katil..tak tau anak da panadai berguling..tergolek jatuh katil..rasa nak pengsan je masa tu...huhu..risau giler..sib baik xde muntah2..paed kata..just a concussion..one tip my mom owez do when we were little..sometimes we fell..and cry outloud..terkezut la tu..my mom will take a bit of garam..and place it on our tounge..amazingly..we will stop crying because of the saltiness..haha..give it a try..plus..selawat ke atas nabi..InsyaAllah ada hikmahnyer.. :)

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