Unexpected incident

"Failure is nature's plan to prepare you for great responsibilities": ~ Napolean Hill

That quote can best described the condition that hubby & I are facing right now.

Hubby is going to Batu Pahat to attend a civil engineering conference held at UTHM starting from today. While I have an appointment tomorrow with a Prof from Aeronautical Department at UTHM.

According to our initial plan, :-hubby will drive to Batu Pahat on Wednesday morning and I'll take a bus ride with baby SN from KL-Batu Pahat on Thursday morning. Hubby will then fetch me at the Batu Pahat bus station to met the Prof and after that, the three of us will return to KL on that Thursday evening.


That was our initial plan. Little did we expect that some unexpected incident had occurred which forced us to change our plan to Plan B. The unexpected incident that occurred this morning happened when hubby was driving on the Lebuhraya Utara Selatan. He started off his journey right after the break of the dawn and driving all alone; the sleepiness and the tiredness conquered his mind that he fell asleep and accidentally bumped on the road divider.


Luckily, he survived during the accident and nothing bad happened to him...Alhamdulillah. But then, kereta 'sakit' lah jugak. Bumper depan pecah. Since the car belongs to my abah who is so fussy with his cars condition (even a tiny little scratch on his car will made him membebel sampai bernanah telinga kui3x), hubby decided to send the car to workshop. However the car will only be ready by this Saturday and it will cost about RM3K jugak lah kot *huhuhu...fulus terbang melayang2*. Thus, hubby is now using public transport i.e taxi & bus to go back and forth from UTHM to the hotel.


This would also means that hubby cant fetch baby SN and I at the Batu Pahat bus station tomorrow. Luckily, I have a friend who is working at UTHM. So, terpaksalah mintak tolong my friend to fetch me & my baby at the bus station tomorrow. So, our initial plan to come back from Batu Pahat to KL on tomorrow evening will have to be postponed until this Saturday.


Memang I boleh je ambik bas dari Batu Pahat ke KL semula esok, tapi memikirkan hubby will have to drive alone again,....then the possibility hubby akan mengantuk bila drive sorang2 atas highway, I decided to stay there with hubby. Lagipun, boleh jugak I jalan2 kat area JB tu...Danga Bay pun I tak pernah pergi lagi. Ada siapa2 nak bawak I gi sana tak? hehe


We'll be staying at hubby's aunt house somewhere in JB after I've finish my appointment with the Prof . Hubby berkali2 mintak maaf dengan I sebab rasa bersalah for what had happened and the difficulties that I might be facing due to this unexpected incident. I bersyukur sangat2, nothing bad happened to my hubby. Duit boleh cari, asalkan cinta hati ku itu selamat..I dah sangat2 bersyukur kepada Allah.

"Hendaklah kamu mencurahkan kasih sayang kepada pasanganmu. Setialah dengan mereka dan selaraskan dirimu dalam urusan satu sama lain. Hindarilah kerumitan hidup bersama, dengan mengabaikan kekusutan kecil dan tidak penting. Semoga Tuhan menganugerahkan padamu kesejahteraan, kegembiraan dan ketinggian rohani. Moga dikurniakan kepadamu tumpuan kehidupan; yakni anak-anak tercinta yang sihat, soleh serta menjadi penyinar." - Ayatullah al Uzma Ali Khamenei.


I anggap ini sebahagian dari kekusutan yang kecil untuk I hadapi sama2 dengan hubby. I wanted to be with him; be by his side; to comfort him so that he'll stay firm as he always do. The three of us dah pernah lalui perjalanan yang lebih sukar dari ini; dan macam I pernah cakap..kita perlu anggap dugaan2 kecil yang terjadi dalam hidup kita ini sebagai kenangan manis untuk mematangkan hubungan berumahtangga. I yakin yang Allah menetapkan percaturanNya yang tersendiri untuk hubby & I. Insya Allah ada ganjaran yang lebih baik menanti hubby & I sekiranya kami sabar menghadapi ujian 2 dariNya..Amin.


Psssstttt : harap2 baby SN tak meragam atas bas dari bukit jalil-batu pahat pagi esok huhuhu.