Since 26th May up to 12th June, I was given a special treatment as if I'm a princess *okeh I mengaku..dari kecik memang berangan nak jadi puteri..siap ada nama untuk diri sendiri time koya2 i.e Puteri Cherrina Emilyia ngeh3x*. The special treatment and care were given by my MIL, my hubby's aunt and also from my hubby right after I gave birth to baby SN. I was not allowed to do any single work...by any single work here I mean anything at all regarding to house chores! .
Umi will cook my confinement dish and also cooked for hubby's o-bento(bekal) everyday. Mak Andak perform body massage to me for 3 consecutive days and also helping umi on doing the house chores i.e sapu & vacuum lantai, kemas umah, basuh & jemur baju baby SN, basuh & jemur baju my hubby and I, mandikan baby SN, dukung baby SN time dia nangis etc. Everytime I touch the broom, umi will quickly told me to let it go and she'll take the broom away from me and continue sweeping the floor .. siap cakap.."Tak yoh wat kijo..gi duduk, biar umi buat" . After baby SN having his shower (which was also performed by both of them), umi or mak andak will collect his clothes and washed it as I was not allowed to do any washing. I was not allowed to do either heavy or light lifting *angkat kain kat jemuran pon takleh apatah lagi nak angkat brg2 lain yg lagi berat*.
(gambar kenangan umi & mak andak jalan2 kat fukuoka)
So, what am I doing as a Princess Yatie Chomeyl ???
I was just given special task to put on all those Mustika Ratu Confinement Set (tapel, param, pilis) to my body, eat on time (supaya perut tak masuk angin) and feed baby SN when he's hungry..that's it!. Apart from that, I was asked to just take a rest *walaupun sebenarnya I tak letih..tetap mommy kena berehat jugak* , which means I have lots of time to blog-hopping during that time.
When umi & mak andak went back to Malaysia last Saturday 13th June, hubby continue to treat me with the 'princess-treatment' as he took charge on doing the cooking, cleaning the house, washing the clothes and lend a helping hand for me to shower baby SN *susah rupanya nak mandikan baby sorang2, I tengok nurse kat spital wat cam senang jer huhuhu*.
As sweetness of life will never be everlasting, so do my life as Princess Yatie Chomeyl which has finally comes to an end. Hubby has to be outstation for three days field trip in Nobeoka (i.e 5 hours journey with car from here) starting Tuesday until this Thursday...sob..sob..sob ...*baru 20 hari dalam pantang dah kena tinggal berdua je dengan baby SN kat umah*.
Kelam kabut sang kalibut .. that's what happen to me yesterday as I have to learn to take care baby SN on my own together with doing the house chores *tu pon I tak kemas umah pon..cuma masak je*. My first experience of showering baby SN on my own was totally a disaster!. I couldnt even finish bathing him as he cries all the time that I bath him. Dah la siap terjatuh botol shower gel dalam bath tub dia, nasib baik tak terkena kaki my hero. I tak pernah tengok baby SN nangis kuat2 gitu, siap nangis sampai tak keluar suara. I was so freaked out so I quickly pakaikan barut perut + pampers (tak sempat sapu minyak telon pon kat perut), balut baby SN dengan blanket and peluk dia kemas2 then I pon join baby SN nangis2 jugak (tapi takder lah I melalak kuat2 macam baby SN). Seriously, once I become a mother...I can easily cry 10000000000 times faster than before *sebelum ni pon memang dah cengeng senang nangis*. It hurt me so much when I hear my baby's cry..sigh. Takut sangat bila tengok baby SN camtu sampai terketar2 badan I..luckily after I hug him, he stop crying ...fuh, lega mommy.
Whenever he's asleep I'll quickly do all the needful things that I have to do. Even when I was having my bath or go to toilet, I have just left the bathroom door wide open as I'm afraid that I cant hear if he was crying if I shut the door closely *nak poo-poo pon tak senang hati huhuhu*. Whenever I was about to eat, he will start crying so I decided to wear the baby pouch and carry him with me while I'm having my meal. Luckily, he sleeps well at night *ke mommy yang tido mati tak sedar baby SN nangis?*. So, I get enough sleep and rest during nightime. Plus, I will also sleep with him during daytime after lunch..jadi taklah I tired sangat.
Maybe baby SN rasa sunyi since tok umi, mak andak & daddy tiba2 takde di sisi dia .. maklumlah sejak lahir ada ramai orang kat sekeliling...tiba2 tinggal berdua je dgn mommy, tu yang dia tak selesa nak duduk sorang2 atas tilam kot. Baby umur 20hari macam baby Nazhan dah tahu apa erti rindu tak? I noticed that since umi & mak andak went back to Malaysia, baby SN nak manja2 extra dan nak beriba compared to masa umi & mak andak were still here. Agaknya Nazhan rindu kat tok umi.
Whatever it is, I take it as my early lesson on how to take good care of my child on my own...and hopefully today and tomorrow will be a better day for both of us compared to yesterday.
Psssttt: Masa menaip entry nih pon, I riba baby SN on my lap since dia akan start nangis kalau I tak layan dia. Owh petang khamis cepatlah muncul... 3hari ku rasa ibarat 3 minggu lamanya hohoho.