Starting from last week, baby SN and I have to go to school. As I've already started my Permanent Head Damage *PhD* study, I have to leave baby SN at Popora hoikuen (nursery) everyday from 9 am-5 pm. Since my campus is about 23km away from our house, there are 2 medium of transportation that I could used to go to the university i.e by car or by train. Public nursery nearby our area were already full and we were in the waiting list until next March...sigh.
So we have to send him to a private nursery which in the end costs us 33 950yen (RM 1260) for this month *ini cuma bayaran untuk separuh bulan + yuran pendaftaran*. Hohohoho...with that amount of money, I can rent a semi-D 2 storey bungalow in Malaysia...aiseh, what to do *takkan I nak bawak baby SN masuk lab wind tunnel dengan I yer tak?*. For the next month, we have to pay 36 540 yen (RM 1400) per month for his monthly payment of the nursery...*aiseh, garu kepala laju2 sampai luruh semua kutu*.
So we have to send him to a private nursery which in the end costs us 33 950yen (RM 1260) for this month *ini cuma bayaran untuk separuh bulan + yuran pendaftaran*. Hohohoho...with that amount of money, I can rent a semi-D 2 storey bungalow in Malaysia...aiseh, what to do *takkan I nak bawak baby SN masuk lab wind tunnel dengan I yer tak?*. For the next month, we have to pay 36 540 yen (RM 1400) per month for his monthly payment of the nursery...*aiseh, garu kepala laju2 sampai luruh semua kutu*.
(Baby SN at Popora Hoikuen)
On the first day i.e Tuesday 13th October 2009, we went to school by car and it took me about 1 hour to arrive there because of the traffic congestion and also because of the speed limit to drive is only 40-60km/h huhuhuhu. It was not too hard to drive alone with baby SN as he sleeps most of the time in his car seat.
The hardest things to do is of course to left Nazhan at the nursery after being with him 24-7 for the past 4 months. Alhamdulillah I didnt cry .. even I couldn't believe myself . But I guess I have to be strong to ensure that baby SN is tough enough to face other challenges in the future. The nursery is about 2km away from my campus. We purposely choose this nursery as it it near to my campus, in case of emergency I could rush to the nursery to pick up my baby.
They were 4 staffs that are working at the nursery with about 10-15 children to attend to. They will provide daily report on the baby progress and activity done at the nursery. The report will also state amount of milk (in cc) taken by baby SN and how many times diapers have been changed *specific & detail sungguh orang jepun kan?*.
(Baby SN's first day report)
On the second day of schooling, both Baby SN and I travel by using subway train + JR train to reach school. It took almost 1 hour 30 minutes to reach Nazhan's nursery. It was
As we were using the train during the peak hour, it is so hard to look for a seat to sit down. Plus, I was pushing baby SN's stroller..which means I cant sit in the train...arghhh, giler penat cam nak pengsan. After sending him to his nursery, I have to walk for about 15 minutes to reach the campus. Aiseh, pagi2 dah exercise tolak stroller + naik turun tangga + berjalan kaki..hohohoho. On the way back home, it is already dark as nowadays the sunset is at 5.40pm. Furthermore, the weather is becoming colder everyday as we are now entering the autumn season with cold breeze of air swoosh on our face.
I decided to use baby SN's Combi Ninna Nanna carrier on the third day to school. Of course, carrying around a 7.2kg baby on my shoulder together with a bagpack full of his stuffs and not forgetting a handbag full with my stuffs is not an easy task to be done. Dang!. Imagine carrying 3 things on your shoulder which weights approximately reaches 7.5kg in total; for a journey with train for 1.5hours...hohoho..*I'm such a SuperChomeyl-ToughMommy *.
The good thing about carrying him around on a baby carrier is that you get to received a priority seat on the train..yeah!. People will be pity seeing such a skinny lady *okeh, perasan skinny* with a weight of 45kg *apa ntah motif buh berat kat sini* carrying such a chubby baby with loads of bags on her shoulder hohoho. Apart from that, baby SN enjoy being near to me and he also enjoy the view outside of the window panel in the train. On these days, I will cycle to campus right after sending baby SN to his nursery..*perghh sejuk tak hengat, angin menghembus2 tulang pipi*.
Though it was hard to go to school together with baby SN everyday, I know that I should be thankful with this chance given by Allah to us. I am thankful enough as my Prof even provided a private room especially for me to use for praying and to express the breast milk during the school hour *baik sangat2 sensei I kan?* . It will surely took some time for me to adapt with the status as a student again. I have to change my bed time to a lil bit early and of course to wake up early as well ..hohoho. Not forgetting that I have to crack my head again and recharge some of the urat2 otak yang dah longgar to revise on the subject of fluid mechanics again...dang!.
Being a Doctoral student in the wind tunnel laboratory of Research Institute of Applied Mechanics means that I'm sharing the lab with 4 other guys as it is difficult to find other woman in the same lab with me. The only lady that I met everyday at the lab is the secretary..leh gak wat teman I borak2 & makan..ngeeee. I admit that it was not easy to do all this right now (read: a wife, a mommy, a student) but I also believe that these hardships will pay us fruitful success in the future. Bak kata hubby I, "takpo lah kito susoh2 dulu awal2 ni. Insya Allah nanti2 kito sene lah". I'm nodding my head.."Insya Allah".
Being a Doctoral student in the wind tunnel laboratory of Research Institute of Applied Mechanics means that I'm sharing the lab with 4 other guys as it is difficult to find other woman in the same lab with me. The only lady that I met everyday at the lab is the secretary..leh gak wat teman I borak2 & makan..ngeeee. I admit that it was not easy to do all this right now (read: a wife, a mommy, a student) but I also believe that these hardships will pay us fruitful success in the future. Bak kata hubby I, "takpo lah kito susoh2 dulu awal2 ni. Insya Allah nanti2 kito sene lah". I'm nodding my head.."Insya Allah".
Psssttt: Doakan di permudahkan urusan kami dan doakan I cepat2 dapat mana2 scholarship yang I apply yang sudi menaja study I. Amin.
31 words of wisdom & comments:
Insyaallah ado rezeki nanti. adola hok sanggup taja Ti.
amin hope doa cik chomel dmakbulkan..hehe
tertarik ar ngan daily report tu heharap one day kt m'sia ni pon buat cam2 kan...
best nyaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!
Aku nak bukak nursery laaa gini!!
gambatte ne!! u memang a tough chomeymommy hahaha...takpela sabar sikit yatie..btul tu..kalau tak susah mane nak dpt senang..awww bessnye nurseri baby SN bagi report hari2 camtuu..takdela kite risau sgt kan even bayar mahal sikit.
unburivuburiyaaa..(sebut cam org jebun sebut unbelievable)
gambatte!! yatie chomeyl fighto!
Puan YC
ohhh hakase ka...dahsyat!
kalau i dok sana leh i jadi bbsitter kahkah
wahhhhh yati mmg tough gilerrrsss....cute bila babyN senyum...yg letih2 terasa hilang tengok dia senyum...semoga yatie tabah mengharungi segalanya...
kak.....
insyallah....tuhe maha adil.....dio tahu segalo susoh payoh kak tu....insyallah....besa ganjare nati......
kak nur >> i hope so
erinsz >> tu ka, rajin cikgu2 nursery tulis report hari2
jiji >> bukaklah, leh hntr baby SN nanti eheh
farah >> tu la, wpon dh bg report hari2 still risau gak hohoho
mama miya >> arigatou ne
fid >> meh la blk duk isni, leh jgkan baby I eheh
mamaSyaza >> tu la pasal,senyuman baby SN penawar segala keletihan
mamaSaffiyah >> eh, ore kak ko? raso mace ore mudo lagi ngeeee
ganbatte ne doktor yatie!! go woghih go!!
insyaAllah ada rezeki nanti. wahh nursery baby SN macam best dan menarik tertarik memang da bomb la..hehe
mesti dia suka kan?
Yatie, mesti berat hati jer nak tinggalkan Nazhan kat orang lain, kan?takper, u r one tough cookie, mesti kental! Haik!
All the best in your studies...kim salam kat baby Nazhan.. :>
bestnyer nursery mcm tu...i suka sbb very detail..
Salam Kak Yatie,
Amin. Moga akak success selalu. Terus saya bersemangat ni. Saya pula 2 dalam satu je ni. Keje + study.
Kalau hendak seribu daya kan kak ^_^
sibbaik si chomeyl SN nak dok kat stroller n bby carrier :)
klu si chomeyl sy yg xnk ngn smue medium pengangkutanye, mau bengkok tulang belakang sy (sy yg seberat 50kg-kikiki nk gak letak berat mcm u)
wah.. bila baca.. memang kena tough la kan.. what ever u do.. will wish good luck to you..
semoga semua urusan dipermudahkan.. insyallah
good luck kak yatie..semangat kental utk smbung bljr..terinsipirasi tiqah utk smbg bljr lg..
rasanya macam tak sanggup aje nak susah macam tu lagi..huhhhu..
jepun semua benda mahalkan..
mahalnya yuran kat nursery tu! tapi mujur la service nya agak bagus. kite mmg respect la golongan mcm yatie (wife + mom + student). kite rs mcm tak mampu je nk jd gitu. kalau buat part time mgkn ok kot. mdh2an dipermdhkn segala urusan..
hok susoh tu jugaklah yang disebut2 maso tuo nnt... :) moga ALLAH mudahkan Yatie...
nk tya boleh,mcm mana nak control Uwaiys ni...dia asyik nak pakai Yukata aje....naik boring lak tgk
bestnyer sekolah baby SN... tapi fee dia pun sgt la 'best' ...huhu. kalau kt mesia leh byr keta bmw bulan2... comel la kecik2 dah pi skolah siap ngan beg sekolah..hehe
wah yatie..yoku ganbatteru ne! ouen shiteru yoo..hehehe..moga Allah akan selalu memberi kemudahan dan kekuatan buat yatie sefamily :D
woghih >> arigatou ne ;)
drama mama >> dia mmg suka g nursery, sbb dpt ramai kwn
Hanz >> mula2 susah la, tp skrg dh kuatkn hati demi mengahrungi segala kepayahan in eceh
nieda >> aah, mmg detail gile..kencing berak pun di rekodkan eheh
dayah >> mari kita sama2 berusaha hohoho
irma >> setakat ni nak duk lagi la,lps ni xtahu la huhu
cutemiyt78 >> tenkiu2x..*hugs*
atiqah >> semangat tak kental sgt sbnrnya tp bosan duk umah jer eheh
kak NB >> tu la psal, serba serbi mahal..botak paler hubby ngeee
nadiah >> ramai lg yg golongan ibu yg lg tough dr yatie..ada tu siap sorang2 je jaga anak + study + masak hohoho
sitisifir10 >> tu lam sek sok bilo tuo ingat lah sumo susoh payoh ni
azza >> yer ke dpt byr BMW? aiseh, hntr nazhan blk msia la klu gitu..duit ni smpn wat byr kete eheh
oja >> thanks utk doa nya :D
yahhh yati mmg kuat... baby SN pun akan jd kuat mcm ibu dia.. moga kesabaran yatie harungi semua tu akan terbayar suatu hari nanti.. teruskan perjuangan jgn putus asa yer....
yatie, x de sape2 org malaysia yg nk jaga bay SN ker?..
yatie, x de sape2 org malaysia yg nk jaga bay SN ker?..
@eda >> insya Allah baby SN pun tough lah pasni eheh
firahadifa >> setakat ni takderlah ...lps ni tak tahu lah..kalau ada kan senang :)
baru baco entry ni bele2 jerit, huhu emo pulok. takpela, insyaAllah semua yg kita buat sekarang ada hasil yg sgt bagus untuk masa depan.
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