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Tuesday, 15 March 2011

Lesson Learnt from Japanese people

I found this snippets of stories as shared in Facebook. Though it is quiet long, I recommend you to read every single sentences in this entry. I assure you that it it worth your time to read and I hope after you finish reading it; there's valuable lesson that you can learn from these inspiring stories. Enjoy it!.


Japanese people have been very open on Twitter about their experiences following the quake. These snippets of what moved them and touched them during these very trying times are heart-warming. Jun Shiomitsu have attempted a rough translation on some of them so that you can have a read.

Please continue to pray for the people in Japan.

"I hope these mini-stories will bring strength and encouragement to my friends and family in Japan by letting them know that, not only does the world sympathize with them, it looks up to them in admiration! My thoughts are with you". - Jun Shiomitsu


(1) At Tokyo Disneyland:

Tokyo Disneyland was handing out its shops’ food and drinks for free to the stranded people nearby. I saw a bunch of snobby looking highschool girls walking away with large portions of it and initially though “What the …” But I later I found out they were taking them to the families with little children at emergency evacuation areas. Very perceptive of them, and a very kind thing to do indeed.

(2) Message from the UN

Secretary General Ban Ki Moon: “Japan is one of (the UN’s) most generous and strongest benefactors, coming to the assistance of those in need the world over. In that spirit, the United Nations stands by the people of Japan and we will do anything and everything we can at this very difficult time.” I was moved at his words. What better example that good things happen to those who do good.

(3) At a congested downtown intersection …

Cars were moving at the rate of maybe one every green light, but everyone was letting each other go first with a warm look and a smile. At a complicated intersection, the traffic was at a complete standstill for 5 minutes, but I listened for 10 minutes and didn’t hear a single beep or honk except for an occasional one thanking someone for giving way. It was a terrifying day, but scenes like this warmed me and made me love my country even more.

(4) During the earthquake

We’ve all been trained to immediately open the doors and establish an escape route when there is an earthquake. In the middle of the quake while the building was shaking crazily and things falling everywhere, a man made his way to the entrance and held it open. Honestly, the chandelier could have crashed down any minute … that was a brave man!

(5) Bus stop mini episode:

It was freezing and bus was taking ages to arrive. “@saiso” left the queue to run to a nearby pharmacy. He bought heating pads and gave one to everyone in the queue!

(6) Thank you Tokyo Disney Sea

My daughter who was staying at DisneySea just made it back home! Many, many thanks to the staff who worked very hard in the cold with ready smiles that made her to feel safe and secure during the entire night. They brought her food, drinks, snacks, heating pads, and anything necessary to ensure she was comfortable and secure throughout her stay. I was touched by the Disney staff’s warmth and hospitality. Thank you so much!

(7) Reminded of the goodness of the Japanese people

This earthquake has reminded me of that Japanese goodness that had recently become harder and harder to see. Today I see no crime or looting: I am reminded once again of the good Japanese spirit of helping one another, of propriety, and of gentleness. I had recently begun to regard my modern countrymen as cold people … but this earthquake has revived and given back to all of us the spirit of “kizuna” (bond, trust, sharing, the human connection). I am very touched. I am brought to tears.

(8) Card board boxes, Thank you!

It was cold and I was getting very weary waiting forever for the train to come. Some homeless people saw me, gave me some of their own cardboard boxes and saying “you’ll be warmer if you sit on these!” I have always walked by homeless people pretending I didn’t see them, and yet here they were offering me warmth. Such warm people.

(9) What foreigners are saying about Japanese people

At a supermarket where everything was scattered everywhere over the floors, shoppers were helping pick them up and putting them back neatly on the shelves before quietly moving into line to wait to pay for them. On the totally jam-packed first train after the quake, an elderly man gave up his seat for a pregnant woman. Foreigners have told me they are amazed witnessing sights like these. I do believe they actually saw what they said they saw. Japan is truly amazing.

(10) Information network this time around

The information sharing efforts on Twitter or USTREAM, together with the quality of coverage and crucial updates provided by the mass media this time around is incomparable to what we got during the Kobe earthquake. I am deeply impressed by Japan’s successful efforts and ability to put to practice lessons learnt from past tragedies.

(11) Touch of art

I saw artists and painters trying to keep things upbeat by painting or drawing beautiful or encouraging drawings for the evacuees around them. I was touched at how everyone was doing their very best to help.

(12) BBC Reports

The words of BBC’s reports are so moving they make me cry. They were praising us with words of admiration! “One of the worst earthquakes in recorded history has hit the world’s most well-prepared, well-trained nations. The strength of its government and its people are put to the test. While there have been casualties, in no other country could the government and the people have worked together in such an accurate and coordinated way in the face of such tragedy. The Japanese people have shown their cultural ability to remain calm in the face of adversity.”

(13) A little story about Papa

We live in an area that was not directly hit. When my father came downstairs and heard the news saying that our area had begun allocating electricity to the hard-hit areas, he quietly led by example, turning off the power around the house and pulling the plugs out of their sockets. I was touched. He usually NEVER turns off the lights or the AC or the TV or anything!

(14) Japanese people don’t shove

日本人すごい!!こんな時にも山手線ホームできれいに整列してる …涙。有楽町駅を上から眺む。

I'm looking at Yurakucho station from above. I see people standing in line, not pushing or shoving to get onto the Yamanote Line (probably the busiest line in central Tokyo), even at a time like this!

(15) The bakery lady

There was a small bread shop on the street I take to go to school. It has long been out of business. But last night, I saw the old lady of the shop giving people her handmade bread for free. It was a heart-warming sight. She, like everyone else, was doing what she could to help people in a time of need. Tokyo isn’t that bad after all!

(16) Japan is a wonderful nation!

Both the government and the people, everyone is helping one another today. There are truck drivers helping evacuees move. I even heard that the “yakuza” (gangsters, organized crime groups) are helping to direct traffic in the Tohoku region! There have been many recent developments that have made me lose my sense of pride in my country, but not anymore. Japan is an amazing place! I’m just simply touched. Go Japan!

(17) Twitter is amazing!

The information shared to us all by the twitter community has been amazingly consistent with each other and has been so helpful. Thank you Twitterers! I’m very moved. People recently talk about social networks replacing traditional social life and making people cold and unsociable in real life. But … I guess that’s not true at all.

(18) From a German friend

A German friend of mine was in Shibuya (downtown Tokyo shopping district) when the earthquake hit. He was panicking when a Japanese passerby saved him, taking him into a building. My friend was blown away at how calm and disciplined this Japanese man was. He went out of the building with firm, unfaltering steps, did everything he was trained to do and came back. My German friend was deeply impressed by the Japanese people’s actions during the earthquake, saying they looked like a trained army.

(19) At the supermarket

I just came back safely from the supermarket! Man, I was so touched at how everyone there was mindful of others, buying only as much as they needed and leaving the rest for the people behind them.

(20) Gotenba traffic

Japan is really something! Yesterday, not a single traffic light was functioning in Gotenba City. But drivers knew to take turns at intersections and give way to others when needed. Local people were using flags to direct traffic at intersections. I drove for 9 hours but never saw a single car trying to get in front of another. Every single driver on the road contributed to the traffic situation and as a result there was no confusion at all.

(21) “All of us”

I spoke with an old taxi driver and some elderly staff at the train stations. All of them had been working non-stop and had not been able to go home for a long time. They were visibly very tired, but never once did they show any sign of impatience; they were gentle and very caring. They told me “… because all of us are in this together.” I was touched at what the notion of “all of us” meant to these elderly people. It is a value I will treasure and carry on to my generation.

(22) A strong Japan

Suntory Beverages has set up free vending machines. Softbank Telephone services is offering free Wifi spots. Everyone in Japan is putting everything they can into helping one another. Japan is also now receiving aid from abroad. Compared to the Kobe earthquake, when Japan took too long to contemplate accepting foreign aid or dispatching the self-defense force to join the rescue effort, Japan has definitely grown into a far stronger nation. Be strong, everyone!

(23) Morning Ceremony

At the shopping center I work at, every morning we have a ritual (common in Japan) where we stand and recite, “No matter what the situation, I will never show anxiety before my customer; in all customer-facing situations I will treat my customers with respect and do everything I can to make them feel comfortable and at ease”. Today, these words were all actually kind of touching. Well, so the day begins! Here we go people, open shop!

(24) Mr. Inoue

Mr. Inoue has been churning out drawings of smiling and laughing faces at an amazing pace! Things like this remind me again of what it truly means to give people a message of strength and courage.

(25) Lessons Learnt

What caught my attention on twitter is that a lot of the tweets were about the Kobe earthquake and how what we have learned from it has been put into practice this time around. I know it goes without saying, but I was once again reminded of how humans are indeed creatures that possess the amazing ability to think and learn from experience. It’s a great thought.

(26) Message from a friend in Rome

My friend in Rome emailed me. He said that people in Rome are watching the news and sharing their amazement and their heartfelt respect at how, even at a time like this, the people of Japan are able to remain calm and systematically respond to the situation. People in Rome are thinking of us and are very concerned for us.

(27) A strong voice

Yesterday, I was impressed and touched by the actions of my neighbor’s 13-year-old-boy. He was home alone when the earthquake hit. But instead of hiding, as soon as the earthquake quieted down, he jumped on his bicycle and road around the block repeatedly shouting at the top of his voice, “Is everyone alright? Is everyone okay?” At the time, there were only women and children and the elderly in the homes. I cannot describe how comforting it was just to hear a strong voice asking if I was okay. Thank you!

(28) The beauty of helping one another

I went out last night to help some friends who were volunteering as security personnel between Machida City and Sagami Ohno City. I saw total strangers, both young and old, helping each other along everywhere I turned and was heartened with an overwhelming feeling of encouragement. I was so touched I hid behind the toilets and cried.

(29) I just have a bike

I’m so touched! My colleague at my part time job, wanting to help even just one extra person, wrote a sign saying “I just have a bike, but if you don’t mind hop on!”, rode out on his motorbike, picked up a stranded construction worker and took him all the way to Tokorozawa! Respect! I have never felt so strongly that I want to do something helpful for others.

(30) Sharing your ride

It was stupid of me to think I could catch a cab at Urawamien Station. I ended up walking 30 minutes and then finally was picked up by a stranger who offered to give me a lift. I’m touched by the warmth of human kindness. Thank you, thank you!

(31) Rest here!

Last night, I decided, rather than stay at the office, I should try walking home. So I slowly made my way west on Koshu freeway on foot. It was around 9PM when I saw an office building that had a sign that said “Please use our office’s bathrooms! Please rest here!” The employees of the office were loudly shouting out the same to all the people trying to walk home. I was so touch I felt like crying. Well, I guess I was too tense yesterday to cry, but now the tension is wearing off and am very much in tears.

(32) At the convenience store

While most of the convenience stores near the station were closed because of the quake, there was just one Seven Eleven that was open. The employees had lit lots of candles and put them on the stores shelves. The cash register was not working and they could not take inventory, so the employees worked in threes, one reading up the item description and price, another punching the numbers into a calculator, and the last one using a flashlight to help them work. The store managed to operate both “cash registers” efficiently this way. Impressed!

(33) On the way to the emergency evacuation area

My oldest daughter was making her way to Yokohama’s emergency evacuation area. Total strangers were helping each other out and showing each other the way to the emergency evacuation area. She told me she was moved at how strangers, who can seem so cold at times, showed her kindness and care. I was reminded at the Japanese peoples’ inherent ability to immediately unite in the face of adversity. Today, I have discovered a newfound faith in my nation and my people.

(34) A big, kind voice

I’ve been walking for many hours now. I’m touched at how everywhere I turn, there are shops open with people shouting “Please use our bathroom!” or “Please rest here!” There were also office buildings where people with access to information were voluntarily shouting out helpful tips, like “**** line is now operational!” Seeing things like this after walking for hours and hours made me feel like weeping with gratitude. Seriously, there is still hope for this country!

(35) On the platform

The Oedo Subway Line for Hikarigaoka is very congested. On the platform and at the gate there are just crowds and crowds of people waiting for the train. But in all the confusion, every last person is neatly lined up waiting his or her turn while managing to keep a passage of space open for staff and people going the other way. Everyone is listening to the instructions from the staff and everyone acts accordingly. And amazingly … there isn’t even a rope or anything in sight to keep people in queue or open space for staff to pass, they just do! I am so impressed at this almost unnatural orderliness! I have nothing but praise for these people!

(36) Station staff

I said to a Tokyometro station staff who was on all-night duty, “I’m sure it has been a tough night for you. Thank you.” He responded with a smile, “On a night like this, gladly!” I was touched.

(37) Coffee

My husband finally got home very late last night after walking for 4 hours. He told me he felt like giving up at around Akabane, when an elderly man who was going around handing out free coffee saw him, gave him a steaming cup and said, “You must be tired and cold. Here, have some coffee!” My husband told me that it was because of this elderly man that he found the will and strength to continue walking. I’ve already heard this story from him five times tonight, so no doubt he was really, really touched! Thank you to my husband’s anonymous helper!

(38) Blood donations

Japan is strong! At Osaka I saw a LONG line of people waiting to give blood at the blood donation center. This is the first time I have seen such a queue of selfless people waiting patiently in line just to give. It was a moving sight! To everyone in the hard-hit areas, we your countrymen accept your suffering as our own and we share in your grief. Do not give up! Stay strong!

(39) Saving electricity for the North

I went to my neighborhood supermarket and was initially surprised that their neon signs were off. They usually are open till 1AM. I then found out that they were open, but were saving electricity so that more power could be channeled to the hard-hit coastal areas. Wow!

(40) Not enough money!

At the store where I work, a huge group of young men suddenly came in to buy booze. One of them suddenly said, “Oops, I only have enough money to buy booze, I can’t donate! Forget the booze, maybe next time!” and instead put ALL his money into the disaster relief donation box. One by one, every single one of the army of youths threw all their money into the box after him. What a heart-warming sight that was!

(41) Goth youth

A goth youth with white hair and body piercings walked into my store and shoved several hundred dollars (several tens of thousands of yen) into the disaster relief fund donation box. As he walked out, I and people around me heard him saying to his buddies, “I mean, we can buy those games anytime!” At that, we all opened our wallets and put our money into the donation box. Really, you cannot judge people by their appearances.

(42) Another Disney episode

Amazing! My brother just managed to get home from Disneyland right now. He’s got bags and bags of free sweets. Furthermore, Disneyland paid for every customer’s travel fare back. All night long, the staff responded immediately and fully to every request he made. Disneyland is truly a world class brand!

(43) Same boat!

Last night, Aobadai station was jammed with stranded people unable to get home. But there were private cars with drivers shouting “If you’re going in the direction of ****, please hop on!” I was able to hitch a ride on one of them. When I thanked the driver, he replied “No worries! We’re all on the same boat. We have to stick together!”

(44) Need to charge your phone?

At the emergency evacuation area, a young first-year intern at my company who had brought her phone’s charger got permission from the facility to use their power socket and went around shouting “Anyone need to charge their phone? Please use my charger!” Just a little thing, but I was touched.

--- source: from HERE ---


If this kind of disaster happened to our country, do you think :-

  • we can be as calm as the Japanese?
  • we can be as considerate as the Japanese?
  • we can be generous enough to share and give everything that we have to the one in-need?
  • we can easily let strangers hitch-hike our car?
  • the shops will sell things for cheaper price or even giving away free foods to the customers?
  • we can stay calm and still follow orders?

Japan got hit with an 8.9 magnitude earthquake. Millions of people don't have clean water source or electricity. Security forces have their hands full with rescue operations. Yet, there's no signs of looting or robbery occurred.

Renung-renungkan dan selamat beramal.

24 words of wisdom & comments:

Confession of a Coffeeholic Momma said...

i br aje sembang dgn hubby about our respect to the japanese ppl. dia teruk kena bencana, tp sopan santun & care masih ada. selfless & harmony. kalau negara lain kita bleh tgk org berebut2 berpusu nak collect drinking water. kat jepun, elok boleh beratur. ada we saw on the news, some1 set up generator utk org tumpang charge handphone. giler bagus. kalau org kita, mau pikir tembolok sendiri aje ni.

respect..respect...and they are majority non muslim tu kan?

umi nuha said...


nieda said...

respect dgn orang jepun. Baca entry ni rasa sebak je. Jauh sangat dengan budaya dan cara hidup negara kita. Ingat lagi berita bulan lepas, ada lori bawa syiling terbalik, bukannya orang ramai nak tolong. Sibuk kutip duit syiling berterabur, bangga lagi reporter snap gambar mereka.

KambingBujang said...

respect to the japanese. they are calm people!!!

isabelle said...

terharu i baca entry ni.
org kita, nama je 1malaysia.tapi baru kes politik dah mcm2 jadi.kalo jadi mcm jepun tu, camna agaknye

e.l.i.s.s.m.i.e said...

bila lah nak dpt sket mentaliti macam orang jepun tu kan kat msia ni.

@e_da said...

yatie.. take care ya kat sana.. kami di sini mendoakan agar yatie sekeluarga dijauhkan dr apa2 kejadian..

jepun mmg terkenal ngan sikap sopan santun dan disiplin kan.. tu la negara maju

Min Aina Ila Aina said...

Rasa sebak baca semua coretan tu. Tahniah buat mereka, dan moga diberi hidayah untuk melihat keistimewaan Islam pula.

Jika kita mengamalkan sepenuhnya ajaran Islam, kita boleh menjadi lebih baik dari mereka. Mengapa kita di sini nampak semacam ketinggalan dari pelbagai segi berbanding mereka, kerana kita meninggalkan ajaran agama Islam yang syumul.

Yatie, mudah-mudahan dakwah anda akan memberi kesan di lubuk hati para pembaca.

Aan Andes said...

Min Aina, agree ngan u, kalau betul2 ikut Islam, we can be the best. And so sad baca twitter derang, I am crying reading those. Can't imagine it happen to us. And tgk lah Malaysia, aman2 mcm ni sibuk nak merompak la apa la. Sakit hati betul

Si Penghikayat said...

will Malaysians be like them???

nurul said...

thanks sbb share kan tweets ni..sedih sgt..smpai mengalir air mata..klau kat msia jadi cam ni tak tau la apa jadi kan..sgt respect dgn org jepun & marah sgt dgn editor & kartunis BH yg merosakkan nama malaysia!

mazni_azis said...

mmg sgt respect sikap mereka..mereka boleh teruskan kerja dgn senyum dan ikhlas..diorang cuba utk tenangkan hati org lain walaupun keadaan dh huru hara..mmg sgt2 kagum...tak pentingkan diri..ada satu video masa tsunami yg ditonton oleh kwn sy, org jepun yg menaiki kereta ttp sabar tanpa potong memotong dan menunggu hg ombak tsunami memusnahkan mereka...

ddiini said...

bagus kan sikap diorg...xmcm org2 kita...takde makna nye nk bratur @ senyum n nk bg org lain jln dlu...bkn nk mengutuk msyrkt sndr tp nie la hakikat...bila kluar dari malaysia baru kita dapat lihat pbandingan yg jelas antara masyarakat kita ngan msyrkt dunia luar

asniza said...

mereka 'lebih muslim' daripada kita darpd segi adab dan akhlak.

transformed housewife said...

meme terharu baco cerito2 sakni. kalulah ore2 Msia bullih belajar kd lagu tu jugok, lg molek sgt2.

Oyis said...

tersentuh baca entry ni. jauh nya msia yg negara islam ni ketinggalan. terutama part ni

"At a supermarket where everything was scattered everywhere over the floors, shoppers were helping pick them up and putting them back neatly on the shelves before quietly moving into line to wait to pay for them."

kita? lori beras tergolek tepi jalan, pakat2 gi kaut. van berisi syiling kemalangan, pemandu mati, tp pakat2 amik risiko kutip duit yg bkn milik sendiri tu atas highway, sampai polis kena tutup lalu lintas. bkn nak tolong org yg ditimpa musibah, makin manmbahkan musibah org tu adalah, mencuri plak. teruk betul org kita. bkn nak condemn, tp hakikat...

Suzie said...

couldn't agree more sbb my hubby pun cerita benda yg sama...bangsa jepun ni lain,dia je negara yg kena bom atom tp mcm mana dorg bangkit semula dan jadi yg terhebat di dunia

Farah said...

nak nangis bile baca all the twitters..they already prepared for the worst..even US pon takleh nak lawan.Malaysia lagila kan.

yatie chomeyl said...

mama miya >> yup, semua nya teratur mcm biasa. malah lebih baik dr biasa.

umi nuha >> sou desu ne

nieda >> that is so true, bia lah org kita nk berubah jugak ye?

yatie chomeyl said...

kambing bujang >> indeed they are!

isabelle >> ntah la camne klu jd kat kita kan?

eliss >> jom kita slow2 terapkan dalam minda anak2 kita

yatie chomeyl said...

@eda >> thanks utk doa nya :)

aina >> harap2nya gitu lah aina :)

aan andes >> aah, msia yg xde apap2 bnecana pun sibuk org merompak sana sini kan. kalau ada bencana, x tahu la apa jadi

yatie chomeyl said...

si Penghikayat >> we hope so, insya Allah

nurul >> ur welcome :)

angah >> aah, diorg mmg x selfish. x mcm kita :(

yatie chomeyl said...

ddini >> tu la, jauh berjalan lua spandngan

asniza >> btol tu kak, lebih 'muslim' dr org islam sendiri

k/nur > maghi la kito beruboh retep..tiru ore jepun

yatie chomeyl said...

oyis >> betul oyis, kito keno start beruboh jugop. ni sumo pengajare utk kito

suzie >> btol3x, diorg bangkit tanpa melupakan asal usul bangsa diorg

farah >> yup, msia jauh ketinggalan lah jawabnya

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